Hell Hath No Fury

…….like a sister scorned.  My dear little brother I am very happy that you have moved on with your life in Arizona.  Why are you still married 2 yrs. later?  Why do we have to dance around this subject?

How do you sit in my living room and tell me that your cheatin’ wife is so upset that I am hostile towards her.  She should get down on her hands and knees and thank God that we don’t cross paths. I am supposed to be ok that she is sleeping with a fat version of my brother, while my brother is in Arizona still sending money home.  I know, I know, but he is sensitive and blind, ok I have no defense for his stupidity.

The whole family is hostile and I have cousins that have shunned her in her natural habitat, I mean a bar.  It’s only me that upsets her, how do I respond to that?  “Oh honey it’s ok that you sleep around on my baby brother, let’s be best pals!”  Not hardly!  I don’t care that she is hurt or upset, he is clearly not going to stick up for himself, so the rest of us will.

It was funny the other day the kids without prompting touched on this very subject.  “Mom were …… married before we were born?”  “Well since you were ring bearer and flower girl at said wedding, umm no, why?”  “If we see …. what should we call her?”  ” You can call her whatever you want, your real question should be who is going to keep mom off of her?”

In all honesty I would probably just walk away.  The kids can do what they will and that is ok, but I can not look at her and pretend all is hunky dorey.  How my little brother expects his whole family to be nice to her and ignore the fact that she is cheating on him, wow is he delusional.

I don’t get it, well maybe I am the fool.  She gets to live in the house and sleep with whoever she wants and my brother still sends money.  I have been in line at the grocery store behind people who pay with a food stamp card and have an Ipod 5.  These same people drive kick ass cars.  Is there a class called “how to play the system 101 that I missed?  I guess it’s true nice guys finish last….

Ps. I have never said one word to this girl, we have never had it out.  It’s a good thing, but she knows……

About dragonflyzia

I am just a woman finally accepting that I was never meant to be in the box. I don't fit into any stereotypes, please don't try and label me, that doesn't work either. I am embracing my uniqueness in ways that are new and challenging to me, so that I may continue to grow and never stop learning.
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