It’s been a long time since SB I and I just hung out. Normally we go to a craft show, or Goodwill, or book club, or yoga, and while those are all nice they are not quality time. Tonight I had her over for dinner and we talked about everything.
Funny thing……..her sister in law that taught the awesome yoga class on Monday asked if she scared me. SB responded with “Nah she doesn’t scare easily” which led to the witchy vibe once again that I seem to give off. This has been happening for more than 25yrs……I just go with it. SB knows how often this happens so I think she got as much of a kick out of it as I did.
Ever since SB came with me to my yoga class she has taken it to heart. She went to class with me on Mondays and went to the pricey yoga studio a couple other times a week. She is even making a space in her basement for her practice.
I guess the thing that struck me the most tonight was when we were talking about her husband. I saw him Monday after yoga and later he asked her “Is she ever going to like me again?” He was unfaithful once many years ago……I never forgot. I told her tonight “look…I’ve bowled with him,taken pictures with him, I can have a conversation and joke with him……but it’s always in the back of my head and if it ever happens again…..I will help your brother bury the body!” That’s just me…..I love with everything I am and don’t mess with those I love……I tend to take it personally.
I survived a really rough week at work, why are the short weeks always the longest……Zia