Harried Frenzy!

Have women always been so particular about their hair? When I woke up this morning I knew that I was chopping it tonight, but that didn’t stop me from stressing about it.

Here are a few of the things that were running through my head while I was doing my hair this morning.

Think….when mom cut off her hair, I felt like she cut off her youth….she was 44……what was wrong with my 24 yr old self?

Remember that bad haircut you had when you pregnant with the girl? It was short.

Remember that great inverted bob that you loved….it was short.

You know that you are going to have to get highlights……

Of course I am having a good hair day, it knows it is getting chopped tonight.

I need to change….I need to change, so why not cut my hair?

What if it comes out horrible? I am so nervous!


Ladies, please tell me that these are normal thoughts before a big hair cut? I was arguing with myself pretty well for a while there, even I was worried for a second.

I couldn’t follow the exact picture because well obviously I am not blonde and I have to cover a bad tattoo. It was supposed to be this at only an inch tall…moons3

Overlap the three moons and you end up with something that is ugly and looks more like thishurley-h-lines-circle-1


It’s also about 2 1/2 inches tall. 😦  For now I am stuck with it and my hair length must be adjusted accordingly. When the girl comes back from her fathers I will post a picture.

I do like it but….there was an awful lot of stress that came with it……Zia

About dragonflyzia

I am just a woman finally accepting that I was never meant to be in the box. I don't fit into any stereotypes, please don't try and label me, that doesn't work either. I am embracing my uniqueness in ways that are new and challenging to me, so that I may continue to grow and never stop learning.
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